22 Converse

Robert Sternberg

To converse with a source, you first need to “listen” to what it has to say; after that, it’s time to “respond.”

What You’ll Learn:

  • How to listen to your source
  • How to formulate a response

Partial Understanding

Full Understanding

In the photographs above, we can observe the difference between a partial and a full understanding. It’s ideal to acquire a full understanding of a text before we respond to it.

Listening

Exercise A: Reading to Understand

Take a look at the following three claims and determine whether or not the author made them. If Manjoo made the claim, answer “true”; if Manjoo didn’t, answer “false.”

On July 10, 2019, The New York Times opinion columnist Farhad Manjoo wrote an article titled “It’s Time for ‘They.’” Its main argument? “The singular ‘they’ is inclusive and flexible, and it breaks the stifling prison of gender expectations. Let’s all use it” (Manjoo).

Read the source.

Answering the true/false questions correctly shows that you understand—or have “listened” to—some of the main claims made in the article “It’s Time for ‘They’” by Farhad Manjoo. Listening is the first step when conversing with a source. After all, before responding to a claim, you first have to know what that claim is, right? Only then can you decide if you agree or disagree, and come up with your reasons why.

Responding

Exercise B: Reading to Respond

Using the same three claims from the previous activity, you’ll again determine whether or not they are “true” or “false.” Hint: notice that there’s something missing in the way these statements are presented compared to the previous activity.

 

 

Without the prepositional phrase “According to Manjoo,” you take the fairly big step from “listening” to “responding.” In doing so, the answers are not as obvious as when you completed the exercise the first time, are they? In fact, both answers could be right, because now you are expressing your own personal opinion. Which means you’re not simply showing your understanding of the text anymore, as you were with the previous exercise; now, you’re in the early stages of responding.

 

Tip

When determining whether or not an author’s claim is true or false to you, or whether or not you agree or disagree with it, consider asking yourself some key questions:

  1. Do the main ideas of the article match my experience or prior learning on this topic?
  2. Does the author use convincing evidence to support their ideas?
  3. Do the author’s ideas seem rational or justified?
  4. Has the author confronted or ignored ideas contradictory to their own?
  5. Is the article well-structured, i.e. are the ideas within it logically connected?

Comments, or Letters to the Editor

Nowhere is the process of listening and responding to a text more clearly displayed than in the comments section of an online article, or Letters to the Editor in newspapers and magazines. Here, readers like you are given a chance to respond to an author’s argument (once you’ve listened to it, of course).

Take a look at the following conversation between the author, Farhad Manjoo, and one of their readers:

In the above example, you can see a conversation between reader and writer based on a difference of opinion. Maybe you too have differences of opinion with the author (see Exercise B: Reading to Respond). Or maybe you agree. Either way, determining what you believe in relation to an author’s claims is what it means to respond to a source.

Tip

Typically, when responding to a source, it’s unlikely that the author will be able to answer back, as Farhad Manjoo does in the above example, especially in an academic setting. But that doesn’t mean you can’t anticipate what they might say. In fact, anticipating what an author might say in response to you is an effective strategy of argumentation. It can also encourage you to make your points as clearly and considerately as possible.

Tip

Before trying the activity below, consider the following conventional features of a comment, or a Letter to the Editor:

An introductory statement or topic sentence that clearly expresses the main point(s) of your comment, i.e. What specific point or points are you trying to get across?

Supporting details so that your main point(s) makes logical sense, not just to you, but to your reader.

A concluding statement, where you try to make a lasting impact on your reader.

 

Try It!

Try writing your own comment!

In the activity below, try writing out your own comment or letter to Farhad Manjoo’s article “It’s Time for ‘They.’” You can draw on relevant skills and strategies covered in Build Your Toolkit.

 

TECHNIQUE SUMMARY
Listen First, actively read the source so that you can “hear” what the author is claiming.
Respond Then, consider the claims themselves so that you can have your own “say.”

See related subtopics in Absorb and Build Your Toolkit.

References

See Converse References

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